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How to Teach Sit & Stay: Step-by-Step Dog Training

Master the foundational sit and stay commands with positive reinforcement. Perfect for puppies and adult dogs learning obedience.

By Marcus Reeves · Published 28 September 2026
How to Teach Sit & Stay: Step-by-Step Dog Training

Why Sit and Stay Matter

The sit and stay commands are the foundation of all dog training. They teach impulse control, build trust, and keep your dog safe in potentially dangerous situations.

Step 1: Teaching Sit

Hold a treat close to your dog's nose. Slowly move your hand up and back over their head. As their nose follows the treat, their bottom will naturally lower. The moment they sit, say "yes!" and give the treat.

Step 2: Adding the Cue

Once your dog reliably follows the lure, start saying "sit" just before you move your hand. Practice this 5-10 times per session.

Step 3: Teaching Stay

Ask your dog to sit. Hold your palm out like a stop sign and say "stay." Take one step back. If they hold position for even a second, return and reward. Gradually increase distance and duration.

Common Mistakes

  • Moving too fast — build duration slowly
  • Repeating the cue — say it once clearly
  • Training when distracted — start in a quiet room

Practice in short 5-minute sessions, 2-3 times per day. Consistency beats intensity.

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Marcus Reeves

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