Dogs and Kids: Building Safe Friendships

Building Safe, Loving Relationships Between Dogs and Children

Dogs and children can form the most beautiful bonds, but without proper guidance, these relationships can turn dangerous. Teaching both your dog and your child how to interact safely is the foundation of a lifelong friendship.

Teaching Children Dog Safety

• Ask before petting: Always let the dog approach first and sniff the child's hand
• No tail or ear pulling: Teach gentle touching on the dog's back or chest
• Respect meal times: Never approach a dog while eating
• Leave sleeping dogs alone: Startled dogs may react defensively
• No hugging: Many dogs find being wrapped in arms stressful and restrictive

Preparing Your Dog for Kids

Before introducing a dog to children, ensure they are comfortable with loud noises, sudden movements, and being touched all over their body. Practice gentle handling exercises and reward calm behavior around child-like sounds and movements.

Warning Signs to Watch For

1. Dog stiffening or freezing when a child approaches
2. Whale eye (showing whites of eyes)
3. Lip licking or yawning when stressed
4. Growling, even quietly — never punish a growl as it is a warning
5. Trying to move away from a child

Creating Safe Spaces

Both your dog and your child need retreat spaces. Your dog should have a crate or room where children are not allowed. This gives the dog a stress-free zone to decompress. Teach children that the dog's crate is off-limits.

Supervision Rules

Never leave a dog and young child unsupervised, regardless of how trustworthy the dog seems. Most dog bites to children occur with family dogs in familiar settings. Active adult supervision is non-negotiable for children under 8 years old.

Remember: The goal is not to keep them apart, but to teach both how to share space respectfully and safely.